You tried the online dating thing and got so frustrated and gave up. Or maybe you are still doing it and not getting great results. Men lie about their height, can’t spell, look 20 years older than the picture they had on the profile, and they are 50 years old and have an age range from 20-30 women, or some of them are just plain creepy.
Believe me, I have been there. I tried online dating for over 15 years off and on, and I have seen it all. I probably dated over 100s of men and could have been in the world genius record. Ha Ha You want to know the number one thing I did not do? Give up. Now, I am not going to say that I did not want to. Yes there were plenty of times I did. And yes, I took some breaks. When I took a break, I made sure I worked on myself and learn more about dating. One of my breaks (and so happened to be the final one) is when I researched and learned how to attract a great man online and found great strategies. I got back on Match.com with the new strategies, created a new profile, new picture, new way of searching and a new way of communicating with men online. Two weeks later met my fiancé, Jim. It can happen that fast.
Just imagine a couple of weeks from now that you have a new love in your life that could be that amazing man that you have been looking for. I wanted a man who was financially stable, kind, loyal, attractive, who liked the outdoors including sailing. Meet a quality man. I got all of that and so much more. We just went sailing this past weekend in Newport Beach and that is why I am writing this post today because I was thinking of you and how I want this for you too.
Here are a couple of pointers and to get great results with online dating:
Be very clear in what you want in a man and relationship. If you have been on my newsletter for a while, you know I say this time and time again. It saves you so much frustration and time in online dating.
Once you know what you want, search online for men based upon specific categories that you are looking for as stated above. One of my specifics was sailing. Five men came up in my specific search with the word “sailing” and Jim was the third one I dated from the search and the rest is history.
And yes, you do the search online and email the men. You will have better results.
Do not always go by the picture on the online profile because men don’t always take great pics. When I first looked at Jim’s pic, I almost did not contact him because his pic did not look that great. Boy, when I met him in person, I was pleasantly surprised that he was handsome!
You have to have a great online profile that is authentic and stands out. Yes, online dating is competitive, so this is why it is important. Don’t use the old cliché’s that everyone else is using like: I like walks on the beach, I cook great meals, I am looking for a committed partner. Sorry, but boring.
With 35% of marriages coming from online sites, and 50 million Americans tried online dating at least once, – you cannot be the odds as a place to meet great men. Online dating does work, and it worked for me and my clients. Marla who initially came to me was not getting any responses to online dating. After we worked together for a couple of weeks, she was getting dates with high quality men.
Especially if you are a busy woman, online dating is the sure way to go. You just have to set yourself up for success to attract those great guys that are online. When you’re competing for the attention of the handful of high quality men – against women who are younger, thinner or better writers – you need every tool in your arsenal to stand out from the crowd.
Let me help you!
We can write an amazing online profile that stand outs, learn the special search features (no one knows about this hidden feature on Match.com), learn how to read men’s profiles and weed them out, and know how to get great pictures, and lastly communicate with men to attract that great guy you desire for a lifetime. You will know all the ins and outs of online dating and set you up for success. This is a new product that I am offering for a low cost of $197 and as bonus will add in a free private coaching session and unlimited email during the time we work together. I would recommend acting fast because I will not be holding this offer for long. Just hit reply and we will setup a call to to talk about it.
Love and all the best Kim Quick
